Stop the Distractions

These days we have so many distractions. The news, social media, movies, shows, etc. Once you understand this it’s pretty amazing how much you can actually achieve. The news is nothing but negativity. Im not saying that the issues aren’t important but if we were being honest we know the news doesn’t provide healthy dialogue. Thats achieved with your peers and family. The shows on tv are distracting you from your goals! I removed all streaming services a couple years ago and we are doing just fine. We are getting things done around the house. Such as making our own garden and improving the yard. We have more time to workout and stay in shape. We talk more with our kids and each other. The world is always going to be crazy and messed up. I prefer to focus on my goals and what I can control which is my own life. Once you focus on your goals and personal growth the world doesn’t seem so negative. Remember control what you can control! Thats your own life. Constantly worrying about stuff you see on the internet is toxic and just a plain waste of time! Have a blessed day!

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Learn to be alone

I’ve always enjoyed my own company. When I was younger and had a break up or a falling out with friends. It was an advantage for me. I never needed to party or be part of group. Some people see this as weird or arrogance whatever that means. Being able to chill alone is a superpower. Humans are wired for connection. They like being with a group. I enjoy hanging out with my friends and spending time with my wife & kids. I love being a family man but no one is responsible for your happiness. Thats on you. I think this helped me with my creativity and my business growth. Plus Im very stubborn and I refuse to quit. If it’s possible you should really consider setting aside some time for yourself. Read some books, watch a show or a documentary. I use my alone time to learn and meditate. This is also beneficial to those around you. It gives you time to reflect and appreciate those around you. Have a blessed day!

Learn to let go

As I’ve grown in these last few years. I have changed how I look at things which includes business, friendships, relationships etc. One of the biggest things has been letting people go. I had some very close friends that I hardly speak to anymore. Im not angry or vengeful but sometimes it does bother me a little. The thing is after I let these people go I actually feel better than ever. Im lifting weights and eating right. I’ve quit drinking alcohol except for wine or a beer every once in a while. I had a few glasses of wine this past week. I hadn’t had any alcohol for almost 7 months prior to that. My discipline has gotten better. My business is growing and Im supporting my family. Bottom line is sometimes letting go of people actually is great for you spiritually. I enjoy my own company like I always have but now its like a superpower. When you can hangout by yourself that is a blessing. I know a lot of people who absolutely hate being alone but I enjoy it. So stay strong and invest in yourself. You are capable of great things when you give yourself the time! Have a blessed day!

Saturday!!!

I hope you all are having a good start to your weekend! I’m sipping on some coffee about to do some pushups and start working on my music. I’ve been feeling more motivated lately. I’m so thankful for that because honestly the news and the internet is nothing but negativity these days. I’m truly thankful for everyone who checks out my blog and my music. This website of mine is becoming more and more the place where Im most active online. I will be sharing more things daily from now on. So have a blessed weekend and make it a good one!